Game Changer

I recently had a friend ask for some advice about a guy she has been seeing for the last month or so.  She wanted to know if it was too soon in the relationship to get him a gift for Christmas.  Now I don’t pretend to be all knowing when it comes to relationships, but my logic tells me that if a person is spooked because they were given a small present for Christmas, then that person must not like you very much and they aren't worth dating in the first place.  Sometimes I get really tired of the games we play with each other.  If you want to get something for someone, get it for them.  If you want to text someone, text them.  If you like something about someone, tell them.  Just be your weird quirky self.  You will attract people who will accept you for who you are.  You will surround yourself with people who actually make you happy and you will rid yourself of the people in your life that are likely to hurt you.